Michael D.Heath-Caldwell M.Arch.

1848

Hannah Eliza Roscoe - age 62 /63         

James Stamford Caldwell of Linley Wood - age 61/62       

Arthur Cuthbert Marsh of Eastbury Park - age 61/62   

Anne Marsh-Caldwell of Eastbury Park – age 56/58  

Eliza Louisa Marsh-Caldwell – 'Louisa' –  age 29/30   

Frances Mary Marsh (later Crofton) - age 28/29 - married in June Maj. Gen. Richard Crofton R.A.   

Georgina Amelia Marsh-Caldwell – 'Gies' – age 27/28  

Rosamond Marsh-Caldwell – 'Posy' - age 24/25 

Mary Emma Marsh (Lady Mary  E. Heath) – age 20/21  

Hannah Adelaide Marsh (later Loring) - age 18/19

John Augustus Milbourne Marsh - age 28/29 - from Australia - In England to get married.

Diary of Anne Marsh-Caldwell

1848

1st January 1848, Saturday

Lady and Minny Pell, Lady and George Milman dined. Mr Hay, Harry and Frank came. 

2nd January 1848, Sunday

To Pinner Church. Saw Mr Carr.

3rd January 1848, Monday

The three young men went.

4th

19th February 1848

Aunt Me (Margaret Emma Holland) and Willy here. Louisa and I dined at Mrs Carpenters. Stayed all night in town. Saw Lady (Morrison?)

20th February 1848

To Church. Lunch at Mrs Nothes, called Mrs Marshall. Aunt G and Miss Morrison, Lady Bedford, Lady Pell drank tea at Mrs Booths. Miss Bailey and home.

221st February 1848

Very much tired, staid at home, read 'Angela' at night.

22nd February 1848

Letter from Sir T.D. Name on list of rec Sir promised. Finished 'Angela.'

23rd February 1848

ACM to town. farm,  garden. Read 'Shadows of Clouds.' Louisa to Lady Pell in London.

24th February 1848

Clearing shrubbery with Nash. Lady Gifford came. 

25th February 1848

Farm (lyan paring and baring cones??) Dined at Tewkeleys, Arthur and Mary. Mr and Mrs Hodgson, Miss Leigh, Mr Wood.

26th February 1848

Hair

27th February 1848, Sunday

To Pinner Church. Lady G.,H.,G., M.A. Willy and self.

28th February 1848, Monday

Fine morning. Rain evening.

29th February 1848, Tuesday

To call on Mrs Whittingstall and shop in Watford with Lady G.

From Anne Marsh-Caldwell

to her Brother, Stamford Caldwell.

March 17^th [1848]

My dear Stamford,

I have been staying in London a few days and I know you like to hear what the world is going about and what it is saying and at this moment it is indeed a strange awful time. And I wish I had picked up more about it. But such anecdotes as I learned you shall have, though they come late and the newspapers will probably have forestalled me.

The first person I saw who had been upon the spot was Mrs Austin. She was filled with the distress of the Bourgeoisie, particularly the poorer and smaller dealers in milk, vegetables and so on, and the poor people who carry water to the houses. Their distress was extreme for no money was to be had. Every one was terrified and not knowing what to do next.

The letter in the times of Thursday the 9^th which I dare say you read was by her. I called upon Lady Capel. She had a letter from Lady [Epes?] who is in Paris. She describes the silent melancholy of the streets, the people going about in mourning, nothing bought but black. And as little bought by any one as possible, everyone endeavouring to save what little money they have.

Lord Normanby told Lady Epes (Eyre? Eden?) that for two days the National Guard were in fear that it would be impossible for them to keep down the Armed Mob. And that a general pillage and massacre would have been the consequence.

Guigot at a table where he was dining with Sir Bloder Capel used the expression that in a few months or less, “France would be deluged in blood.”

The King shewed the most unaccountable cowardice for certainly he is not really a coward, sitting with his hand before his face, asking everybody about him what he must do. The Queen on her knees before him, telling him there was only one thing left for him to do and entreating him to put himself at the head of his troops, who would have stood by him. “Et mourier en Roi.” But instead of this as he was going to the little hack carriage which carried away french monarchy, french law, french security, french progress, he kept putting his hands to his head and crying, “ne me tuer pas, ne me tuer pas.” Sure never did mans history come to so lame and impotent a conclusion.

Rothschild, that is his famous mother, confesses to having lost one million sterling by these events. Jones Lloyd, the great Banker gives the most deplorable account of financial affairs upon the other side of the water. Admiral Parker and his family are just returned. They saw the thieves who attempted to rob the Palais Royal, [shewing?] up in a row like onions in the street. There is something grievous in the …

Letter continues?

Diary of Anne Marsh-Caldwell

25th March, 1848, Saturday

Captain Crofton here. William this week. Mr Ray came. Charley Eden here. ACM did not go to town. Report the King of Persia abdicated and in prison. Bamburgh Pell dined.

26th March 1848, Sunday

To Pinner Church. Captain Holmes, Mr Henry Milman, Bamburgh Pell dined. 

27th March 1848, Monday

Mr Ray and W.R. went. Spasms, ill. 

28th March 1848,  Tuesday

ACM and Captain Croften to town. Better. Terrible news from the continent. The (Riots?) breaking in Calais, Lille and two (nottanes?) in Boulogne, and two (rioters?) at each of the above places destroying themselves. The mob at Paris reigning supreme. Three of the P(ers?) Gro(?) know to be (rephors,  resspors?) the rest -ing - entirely at a stand still. Education the bourgeoisie and the landed property against the Clubs of Paris which seem prepared to renew the sures of  GG so wishes Mrs(Browne from Boulogne.

Aunt Me, Fanny and Louisa to town to stay all night.

29th March 1848, Wednesday

They returned home with Captain Crofton.

30th March 1848, Thursday

Captain Crofton to Bedford and back.

31st March 1848, Friday

All  at home, ACM to town.

1st April 1848, Saturday

Captain Crofton to town to fetch his brother Travers just returned from India.

2nd April 1848, Sunday

To Church, staid. Captain Crofton went in the evening.

3rd April 1848, Monday

Mr Travers Crofton went. John Greenwood came. Maria Milman.

4th April 1848, Tuesday 

John Greenwood, Maria Milman went.

5th April 1848, Wednesday

To town with Fanny by 3 train. ACM and Amelia in morning and returned. Called in Brook Street. A good deal of weariness about the expected (C--) meeting on Monday 10th. To North Audley Street, to Mrs Milner, Gibious in the evening. Disraeli, de Lacy Evans, Mrs Howes, &c. Outbreak in (Teulon?) expected. "Will defend the constitution to the last drop of our blood," Mr Hawes(?) Mr  Douglas (H-?) sworn in special constable, will leave his staff as an heir loom in his family. All the young men of the higher classes being sworn in. Emiliani on the Violin, good singing.

6th April 1848, Thursday

Shopping with Fanny. Lunch in Brooks Street. Left with Mrs Somers, advised her to get up petition in support of government and for protection against the danger and anxiety to which these popular demonstrations expose the property and industry of London. She complains of the meetings as she calls the deserters as being disaffection.

Lunch in Brook Street, Mr de Berry just returned from a run to C---n. Says the great mischief is done by idle people crowding to those meetings out of mere curiosity. At Berlin not a (berth?) or harshest part of the (crowd, word?) really is correct. Mr Noves says, we have no idea of the dreadful state of Paris by - over by the very lowest dregs of the people. Part of the (Pero Goo?) most violent and irresponsible. The more moderate will probably be overpower and La (Martine?) assassinated. Returned home.

7th 

9th April 1848, Sunday

Sacrament. Staid.

10th April 1848, Monday

An awful day here. ACM to town, sent up word soldiers at station. Lucy brought from town where she returned this morning. Streets full of soldiers, cannon placed on bridges. Men walking about through streets threaten to hunt out the Queen wherever she goes. (She is gone to Osborne) her father (-- a t Temple Stuart) very bad opinions of thing and battle expected went and sat in Mr Tooks garden listening for cannon, however much but heard nothing. ACM came back. All gone off quite quietly, not a soldier seen. Asserting display on Kennington Common by police only. Petition carried in three cabs to house. Fergus O'Conner horridly (person?).

11th April 1848, Tuesday

Smith come in at dinner, tells us on Good Friday all London will be in flames.. Insurrection in Dublin, Lord Clarendon massacred.

12th April 1848, Wednesday

Not a word of Noth in the above.

13th April 1848, Thursday

With Louisa and Adelaide in carriage to town. Musical party at Lady Capels. Madame Oury, Clarkes, Marshalls. Sir Montague (Dooley?), Lord George (Burdet?). Mr Marshall says never was such an odius gross indecent thing as the signatures many of them to the Chartist petition.

14th April 1848, Friday

Walked Mrs Holland in Grosvenor(?) Square. Every one in high exultation at the excellent spirit displayed at the event of Monday, called on Mrs Booth, out. And returned home..

15th April 1848, Saturday

To London with Mary by rail. Party at Mrs (Hawes?) Mochton, Milmans, the Wedgewoods, Huttons, Mrs and Mr Milner, Gabson, &c &c.

16th April 1848, Sunday

Ill and unable to leave home.

17th April 1848, Monday

Aunt Me to town in carriage, brought Me home.

18th April 1848, Tuesday

Ill in bed.

19th April 1848, Wednesday

Ill on sofa, Fanny returned.

20th April 1848, Thursday

Wrote a few letters, Aunt Me (Margaret Emma Holland) returned.

21st April 1848, Good Friday

Better but not go to Church.

Aunt Me, Anne Gabiou and Annie here. 

10th May 1848

Took Anne Gabiou to call on Mrs (Whittingstall?)

11th May 1848

Anne and Annie to town to Miss Morrisons to stay.

13th May 1848, Saturday

Mr John Allen and Mr Ainslie to stay Sunday.

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Saturday 13th.May 1848

Another very warm beautiful day. All talking about the dreadful accident on the Great Western Railway near Swindon,, which happened day before yesterday. Mrs Partridge, Charlotte, and George went for a drive to Uxbridge; I for a ride accompanied part of the way by Mr Partridge, they had heard me express a wish to see Cuthbert Marsh who has a very pretty place about 2 miles from Moor Park and therefore placed at my disposal Mrs Partridges riding horse "Pet."

Where the Marsh's live is about 4 miles from Breakspear, situated on the top of a hill and commanding an extensive view of a very pretty, well wooded country, it formerly belonged to Judge Vaughan. When I reached the house, I sent in my card; found that Cuthbert Marsh was not at home, but Mrs Marsh was, so I went in and introduced myself. I was most politely received by her, and one of her daughters who was in the room at the time, however in due course of time, she sent for her 4 other daughters in order to introduce them, and I must say I never saw more ladylike looking girls any where all very pleasing, of very good figures, tall and graceful, one in particular pretty. Mrs Marsh is an Authoress, having written "Two Old Mens Tales" "Emilia Wyndham" etc etc.

She was a Miss Caldwell of Linley Wood. She seemed perfectly au fait with the manners and customs of Australia, and she seemed much interested my account of it. She enquired after the Dawalls (Duvals?) ( Rose in particular) she also knew the Isaacs (Hugh and Francis) from - receipt (sent to his relations) they had made "Damper" and liked it much.

I stayed nearly a coupled of hours talking the whole time. Mrs Marsh wished me much to have remained dinner with them, but the Partridges expected me home at their dinner and therefore I could not. She said her husband had seen my marriage in the papers and had been trying to find me but in London. She however requested me to leave my present address with her, in order that she might call on us when she came to London.

They had met the Partridges at dinner at Sir W.Richman's but did not know them except by name.

Diary of Anne Marsh-Caldwell

14th May 1848, Sunday

Mr G. L-

15th May 1848, Monday

They all went.

16th May 1848, Tuesday

Aunt Me to town upon her own business.

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Saturday 20th May 1848

Now and again a little rain. Went down in an Omnibus and called on Smith to give him the paper signed by Mr Hibbert and Aunt Charlotte - not in, but saw his partner Alliston. Walked the whole way home, on the way called Edward Wise for a few minutes: - went to Bidgoods in Jermyn St and choose a waistcoat, and then to the tailor in St.James' St.

Heard today that Miss Carr of Cheltenham was married to Reverend J. Gordon of Bristol, one of the Masters of the Public School there.

Mrs Cuthbert Marsh called whilst we were all out unfortunately.

Grace and Aunt went to their dress makers in Cavendish St, a Mr Russell

Received a note from OVe Manning including a letter from George Wise, intimating that the 54 remaining bales of wool might possibly be sold in Sydney should the markets be not all fair

Monday 22nd May 1848

Aunt Mary Anne taken very ill early this morning with violent spasms of the chest. I went at 6 o'clock (am) to Dr Wilson, who returned back with me and prescribed for Aunt.

Hicks, formerly of Darling Downs, called after breakfast for a short time only. He is to call again next week, he says.

In the middle of the day, Aunt became much better, and Grace and I went to return Mrs Arthur Marsh's visit, they are staying in North Audley St. During our absence Mrs Murdock of Harley St called on us, and we unfortunately missed seeing her as well as the Marsh's who had only gone out about 5 minutes. Grace and I walked into Piccadilly and endeavored to find Rodger (Perry, Chevy?) who we heard was staying in Arlington St, we were unsuccessful, and returned home by Regent St, and then took a cab home.

I went out again by myself to my tailor, and on the way Mea Molle who has just returned with his wife from Paris:- he accompanied me to St.James' Street and we rode in an Omnibus home. In the evening Grace and I drank tea with Mrs W (Wise?) Mr Manning, 10 Gloucester Road, Regents Park. We did not go till late ½ past 9. Aunt Charlotte's party - before us in - telling us know. There was a Mr London the florist and his daughter and niece, the Wises, Edye Manning and Mrs Manning, Mrs Clarke, the Manning's father and two sisters, and a Mr Sneider, a Swiss refugee. A musical party entirely Grace dropped her bracelet, the same one she lost when playing with Elvira Lloyd. Louisa Wise was of the party and came home with the Edye Mannings.

Wednesday 24th. May 1848

A very fine day. Had a dreadful headache. In the middle of the day Arthur Marsh called on me bringing me an invitation from his wife to Grace and myself to be present at the wedding breakfast of their second daughter: on the 22nd June next:- We are to call tomorrow on Mrs Marsh. Grace and I afterwards called on Mrs Murdock, 44 Harley St, saw her and like her very much. A ladylike and pretty looking woman of 32 about:- we did not stay long as fresh visitors were announced: we next called on Mr and Mrs Therry Mr Therry very anxious to see Aunt Mary Anne as he had been commissioned by Aunt Sophy to have an interview with her. Mrs Hibbert called on Aunt also Mrs Wilson.

Grace and I called on Mrs Munro, 20 Montague Place, Portman Square, a very cold day indeed. 

Saw Surtees formerly in the 10th Hussars. 

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Thursday 25th May 1848

A fine day. Grace and I went to pay a visit to Mrs Arthur Marsh, found her in and one of her daughters, also a Mrs Slack:- we stayed half an hour and afterwards called on Mrs Molle who lives nearly opposite at No.19. She was in, she mentioned that Mrs Dobson had called very early this morning at ½ past 9 hoping they were up, and therefore she did not receive her.

Mrs Marsh tells us the wedding of her daughter is to take place at Canterbury? Susan Downman is to be Bridesmaid. We called on Mrs Wilson, Connought Square, her sister and her husband, a Mr Whitefort have just returned from V.D.Land

I went out by myself and called again in Molle, after chatting he half an hour we perambulated Bond St, going to all the libraries to see what we could get. - Box for 4 people at H.M. Theatre, none under 8 guineas. Therefore we gave up the idea and taking a Box for tonight . Went to my tailors, also to a Wine Merchants in Duke St. Called to Jarden's in Piccadilly. Trevalyan having asked me twice for a seal left there by him, which he wishes me to take -----

Mrs Matthew Scott called, Edward and Louisa Wise drank tea, they came in unexpectedly. 

Wednesday 7th June 1848

A fine day, but showery. Grace and I took a private carriage and called on Miss Georgina Marsh and Madame Gabiou, 18 Cadogan Place, Lowndes Square: not in.

We then called on the Therry's, also out. We then returned home for Aunt who wished to call on Sir John Pachell in Hill St, Berkley Square. Whilst she was there we called again at the Therry's for the purpose of inquiring whether they would like to have two places in an Opera Box which Molle and ourselves were thinking of taking for tomorrow night in order to hear Jenny Lind in the "Elixior D'Amore."

They go to A-B--- on the morning and to Cwentforden at night and therefore could not. Grace and I went afterwards to Chappels in Bond St to pay for the tickets but found that the Box Molle told us of had been booked. Upon this drove to Molle, and agreed to go with him after dinner to all the Muriothopes (Monro shops?) which I accordingly did, walking as far as Fentons in the Strand, but all to no purpose. Tomorrow however, Chappel is to give us an answer whether a 6 guinea Box can be procured again. 

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

\Wednesday 14th June 1848

This day last year I arrived in England. A beautiful day, and most fortunately for there going to the Horticultural Show in the Regents Park:-

Called on Sir George Shee,

38 Grosvenor Place, n

ear Apsley House, not in:- from thence went to Mr Meek, Somerset House, engaged. And last to the Admiralty, to enquire Sir C. Hamilton's address "--, Midhurst, Sussex."

Mr Munro called today, he says that Henry Munro takes his degree at Oxford tomorrow, but he does not know what profession to place him in, and therefore thinks of sending him to Australia with £1000. He wishes me to write him a letter on this subject.

Called on S. Russell, 18 Lowndes St, not in, wrote him a note to ask him to dine with us tomorrow:- and accompany us to the Opera after.

Thursday 15th June 1848.

Russell called before breakfast to say he would dine with us and go to the Opera this evening. He came to call on and he introduced to Grace.

At 2 o'clock I called again on Sir George Shee, unfortunately he had left town for a few days, and will not be back till Monday.

Received a letter from Murdock inclosing Miss Keats "Letter of Introduction" to Mrs Wynyard. 

Went to Covent Garden to see if I could procure a Camelia for Grace, and found that they were not in season. Sydenham Russell dined with us at ½ past 5 and with Grace and myself accompanied Aunt Charlotte and Charlotte went to the Covent Garden Opera, to hear "Anna Bolena." Our Box was rather too high up to be pleasant, No.102. George went by himself into the Pit. The list of characters was -

Anna Bolena - Grisi

G. Syemour - Mlle Corban

Smeton - Mlle Albion

Enrico VIII - Signr Tom Fasini

Percy - Signr Mario

Rochefort - Sign Ignasio.

Corban is a pupil of Grisi's, she has a very sweet voice, and is very pretty. We were disappointed in not hearing the pretty air "Vivi Tu." They purposely skipped this as several other things in order to shorten the performance, for after the Opera of "Anna Bolena" was finished, there was a humorous piece out of the Opera of 'Betty" by Albion, which was encored. And after this another scene from "Gnecio's Opera "La Prova d'un Opera Seria," sustained by only two characters "Pauline Viandor," (sister of the famous Malibran) and Jane Bursini, the Duett, "Oh! Guardata che Figura," was beautifully sung by them. Madame Viardot is perfectly hideaous but has a good voice and acts well.

The Ballet was a short, but very pretty scenery, it was called "Fête des Fleurs" from the Ballet of "Nirene." The whole performance was not over till ½ past 12.

Met Dr and Mrs Steele today just as they were entering their Hotel, the "Portland Hotel, Chapel St" near Foley Place; and went in with them for a quarter of an hour. He has 2 years leave of absence. He says Wise bought his carriage and harness for £18!!

A find but very warm day: and we found it insufferably so at Covent Garden. 

The Edye Mannings called today. 

Monday 19th June 1848

Showery again today. Grace and I were driven by Dr Wilson in his carriage as far as the Grosvenor Gates in Hyde Park, from which place we took a cab and called on Mrs Russell at Lowndes St. we only saw Russell who was coming out of the door at the time, his mother was out:- he walked with us to 18 Cadogan Place, close by, as we wished to call on Miss Georgina Marsh, she, however, was out.

Took another cab and drove up Bond St, called at the Wine Merchants "Amos's," ordered some 3//- wine. Went then to Storey's, a jeweler in Regent St, who is mending the Paper Cutter, Miss Mainwaring broke:- then home.

Met O'Driscoll and Bates today, gave the former my address. 

In the evening at 8, I went by myself to  a concert given by the famous "John Parry," when I got into the room, found every place occupied and numbers standing: towards the I c- and was fortunate enough to get a tolerable place. And a seat.

The concert had begun when I  arrived, and I found the two  Miss William's, singing a very pretty Duett, "Mid -aving Trees": Next followed,

Cantata, "Adelaide" by Mr Sims Reeves

Chanson Francais (The Brunetta) Madame Sabatier. She sung so sweetly and looked so captivating that she was deservedly encored.

Aria (Papullia) Signor F Lablacha

Fantasia Pianoforte, by Madame Sabatier.

Ballad (Voices from Home) by Miss Bowland.

Aria (Ti perlitemore) by the Miss Pynes and Mr Calkin

And as a wind up, came John Parry in what he called "The Pretensat of an Operetta.

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This was the end of  the first part. The second part, began by a Quartello (Trremate S---emale) by the 4 Distins on the Vase Horns accompanied on the pianoforte by "Willy." Duett, "Sulla Tomba," out of Lucia Di Lammamore. Then a song by John Perry entitled "The Master and Pupil" in the time expressive of "Jeanette and Jeannot." This was his last performance I think: I cannot say much for it, for I  cannot admire his style.

Fantasia on the Concertina by Signor Regondi, this was very pretty indeed.

Song "Il Postiglione" by Mr Farrer, accompanied by one of the Distens on the Sax Horn. 

"Marie Jaimes "  and "Over the Water to Clushe" by Madame Laslache.

Chorus "Beauty's Praira (Precirsa) Weber Concertina obligato --- Thegondi.

Air "Angiol d'Aror" by Sims Reeves.

Duetto Buffo, Le Legimo di Canit" Signora Madame Lablache

Ballad "I've Flower to Sell" by Miss Emma Luccomba

Finale "The True History of England" written by Albert Smith and sung by John Parry. It was meant to be humorous and witty, but I must say the only exceptionable part of the Concert was where Parry sung, otherwise I would have been highly delighted. It was not over till nearly 12 o'clock.

Tuesday 20th June 1848.

Called on Sir George Shee, 38 Grosvenor Place; found him in; exceptionally polite: and he has promised to use his influence in getting particular letters of Introduction to  Sir  C FitzRoy. He recollected my Father perfectly but was not aware that he had left any children behind him.

After staying half an hour took my departure, and I called on Murdock at the office, 9 Park St, Westminster. Stayed with him half an hour:- on my way, as I got out of an Omnibus met Roger Therry, his wife, and 4 other Ladies waiting to get in to  the Omnibus I had left, being en route to the "Fancy Fair" held  this day at Chelsea. After they were out of sight, I recollected that they had taken the wrong Omnibus, for it was going towards Leicester Square instead of the - way. We had asked them to drink tea with us this evening, and were in great dishumour not having heard an answer. I also invited Robert Graham, Sydenham Russell, and Domville Taylor by letter this morning but none of them came. Went in an Omnibus to Euston Square Station, to inquire the time of the Harry? Harvey? From Pinnor, and the merits of this place; as we intend to dress ourselves there, on the way to the wedding.

Met Molle in Charing Cross. 

21st June 1848, Wednesday

Wednesday 21st June 1848

Shortly after breakfast surprised to hear "Mr Murdoch" ushered upstairs;- I had not the slightest recollection of his face, and was not a little astonished at discovering, in him my cousin "Charles Marsh" whom I had not seen for the last 12 years! Since then, he has changed his name to that of "Murdoch," (Murdock?) in consequence of his having taken into partnership in Gordon's House at Madeira. He has only within the last three days returned home from Madeira to recruit his health, he has been absent 5 years from England.

He accompanied me down to the City as far as the Bank, when we separated he having promised to dine with us at 6 o'clock. I continued walking till I came to the London Docks, whither I went in search of the "St.George." She was fortunately lying close to the wharf. As I went on board I saw the Captain, and inspected one of the Portside cabins which he tells me he thinks could be 160 for Grace and myself. He made the homeward passage in 102 days. Walked homewards as far as the East India House the with an Omnibus to Regent St. Got out, took a stroll and met Domville Taylor who regretted not  having received my note till ½ past 9, yesterday evening.

Returned by exactly 6 o'clock, and found my cousin just arrived before me: Louisa Wise came afterwards, her brother Edward was unable to come to dinner. In the evening Charlotte and her mother drank tea:- Louisa Wise returns to the Isle of Wight tomorrow.

Henry Manning called this morning in order to show me an extract he is writing to the Times on Emigration etc. 

Thursday 22nd June 1848. 

A lovely day, got up early in order to be in time for the Train which stared for Pinner at 11.10 from the Euston Square Station: we got there half an hour before our time. On reaching the station at Pinner found a carriage waiting for us, having been ordered previously by Arthur Marsh. We intended to have dressed here, but there was no town? whatever, so we had  to  drive about a mile further and put up at a dirty miserable pothouse of an Inn;- there was  no  alternative:- however Grace managed with the help of her maid "Dowd," to change her dress in less than half an hour, and by ½ past 1 o'clock, we found ourselves at the Marsh's, "Eastbury."

The wedding was over, but the people had just sat down to the Breakfast and on our being discovered on entering places were soon made at the table for us.

The Bride was covered with orange blossoms and I cannot say that they became her, or that her appearance enchanted me. All the Bridesmaids were dressed alike in white muslin: these were the five Miss Marsh's, my cousin Susan Downman, Miss Holland and Miss Hutton.

There were at least 130 people present I should think; some  of them whom I recollect, were Sir Harry and Lady Milman, Sir Hyde Parker, Miss Milman: Lady Gifford and her daughter: the Reverend Gifford (her son) who was the Clergyman officiating at the ceremony. Colonel Shee, a relation of mine, Colonel and Mrs Eden: Mr and Mrs Graham Pigott:- the Roscoes, and the Hollands, cousins of  the Arthur Marsh's: then their Aunts Miss Amelia and Miss Georgina Marsh, also Madame Gabiou (who was a Miss Marsh) the prettiest girl was  Miss Holland.

There was an immensity of speeches - Captain Crofton, the Bridegroom, made a long but stupid speech, his brother made a better. Sir Hyde Parker proposed the health of Arthur Marsh, and he returned thanks. Then the health of the young Clergyman, Gifford, his was tolerably good, he reminded me of Sir Alfred Stephen.

The Bride cried a good deal as she said "good bye," so did her mother, all the others were happy enough. The Breakfast was a sumptuous one. Opposite me sat Downman (my cousin), we never had seen each other before, and he was delighted when he heard my name, and we became the best of friends immediately. He is in the 65th Regiment and quartered at Kinsale but has a month's leave. His manner is very much like Frank Forbes.

I was sorry that my Aunt and Sir Thomas Downman were not present as they intended, but he does not like leaving Woolwich, on account of these Chartist Meetings.

The Bride and Bridegroom were driven to Watford as they intended going by Railway to Leamington, en route to Port-where his company is quartered. After they had left, the people strolled out of doors, some into the woods, others on the lawn; in the green house, in fact, wherever they fancied. All the Ladies wore Bonnetts at the breakfast with the exception of Grace, and all the gentlemen nearly wore frock coasts in which it is the fashion now to be married.

There was to be a ball in the evening but for this is was impossible to remain in consequence of the train for London starting at 9 o'clock. However had we known as much as we did afterwards we could have managed it, for when we reached Pinner where we were to start from, to our disappointment we found that the train had started 5 minutes before. This was unlucky, and I was obliged to hire the carriage, which had taken us to - brought us from Eastbury, to take us to London, a distance of 14 miles, for which the man charged 14/-;-we thought of going back again, and enjoying ourselves at the Ball, but both Grace and I were so tired, that we gave up the idea after a little consideration.

If we had determined at first to have gone by their word instead of by rail, we should have done better. We were 2 ½ hours driving over. We passed through the pretty village of Harrow but being past twilight could only get a very dim sight of it.

At 7 o'clock forgot to mention, there was a warm dinner in Arthur Marsh's room in the Old fellows to which I (as a married man) had the humor of being invited: and a cold collation for the Bachelors; and tea for the Ladies. I never saw it drank with such avidity since I left Australia!

Several of the Ladies after were present had been at another wedding in the neighbourhood yesterday. Miss Hodgson's sister of Pemberton's.  She was married to a Mr Hallet, once her father's Curate at Rickmansworth.

London Evening Standard

Monday 26 June 1848

Marriages

On the 22nd inst., at Watford, Captain Richard Henry Crofton, Royal Artillery, to Frances Mary, second daughter of Arthur C. Marsh Esq., of Eastbury, near Watford, Herts. 

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Wednesday 5th July 1848

A beautiful day, windy, very warm. At 2 o'clock called on Sir George Shee, whom I found at home and with whom I sat nearly an hour. He has very kindly got me a letter of Introduction to Sir Charles Fitzroy from Lord George Lennox. Called afterwards on my relation Miss Morrison, 18 Cadogan Place, Miss Georgina Marsh and Madame Gabiou are staying with her and some -- --, also their niece Miss Graham [William Marsh's 2nd wife was a Graham], ( a relation of whom a Mr Leonard is in Australia)

I intended to have called on Miss Amelia Marsh, and as they were going to call for her in their carriage, to take her to the Botanical Garden's Flower  Show, they insisted on my accompanying them to her residence in North Audley St. To my surprise in knocking at the door, found it the same place, where Molle and his wife live, left my card in both parties.

Called on my other relations the Miss Gostlings living at No.1 Bedford Square, unfortunately they were out, their man servant tells me they had only started for their mother's Whitton Park about half an hour: When I got into Oxford St, met Aunt C, Grace, and Charlotte, all on their way to the Music Shop in Soho Square.

During my absence from home Domville Taylor, and Sydenham Russell called, they former goes to Switzerland on Friday. A Captain Phelps called on me, he has property in New South Wales and wishes to have a little conversation with me on the subject.

Thursday 6th July 1848

The warmest day we have had for some weeks, very oppressive. After breakfast Colonel Shee called on me, he is a very gentlemany man, although not so good looking as Sir George.[Sir George Shee]

Took a cab and called on Mrs Rennalls in Tavistock Square, found her in, also her nephew Creighton, just returned from Port Philip, but owing to some illness he is perfectly blind, and doubts of his recovery are entertained, although he fancies he will be able in a few months to go back to New South Wales.

Mrs Rennalls knows Mrs Dawson in Sydney, and Mrs Dawson's sister lives in London, in Albany St.

Called next on Miss Creighton: and Miss Rennalls in Southampton Row. Saw only the former. From thence drove to Mrs Steele who is now living at 1 Duke St, Portland Place, the Dr not in.

Called afterwards on my relation Miss Amelia Marsh in North Audley St, found her sister with her and a Mr and Mrs Graham. Also her niece (daughter of George Marsh of the Cape of  Good Hope). After leaving them, called on Mrs Molle, living in the same house. Stayed with her half an hour, and returned home with Grace. I afterwards strolled out by myself and went for a couple of hours into Hyde Park, a great number of Horsemen, carriages, and people, at ½ past 6 the Queen made her appearance, going down the Circle by the Serpentine and up where they ride; she was in an open carriage of 4 attended by the Hon. Miss Kerr, Colonel Wemyss her equerry.

Friday 7th July 1848

Raining nearly the whole day. Went for a short stroll to call on Captain Phelps, 16 Bryanstone ST, he has property in Australia, and wished to talk to me on the subject before I went out again.

Miss Newhouse called today and dined with Aunt Charlotte.

Our Piano came from Broadwoods this morning, price £54. The tone is very good I think, and Broadwoods generally improve by being used.

Wrote to my Uncle Marsh, also to Miss Palmer. 

Freeman's Journal

Friday 14 July 1848

Marriages

At Watford, on the 22nd June, Captain Richard Henry Crofton, Royal Artillery, fourth son of the late Duke Crofton Esq., of Lakefield, county Leitrim, to Frances Mary, second daughter of Arthur C. Marsh Esq., of Eastbury, Watford, Herts.

Diary of John Marsh continues..

Monday 17th July 1848

Called on Blair in Margaret St, wrote to Gardiner. I saw Young, he had not heard from Edridge about the St.George.

Called with Grace on my relations the Miss Gostlings, 1 Bedford Square, very glad to make our acquaintance. From thence drove to Lady Seymour's at Spring Gardens to see Miss Callander. Not in however. Thence to Sir P. Aclands to call on Mrs Dobson, not in; then to my relations Miss Morrison, 18 Cadogan Place: Then home with Grace. Went out afterwards to call on Colonel Shee, 8 Lower George St and to leave a note to invite him here tomorrow evening.

Monday 24th July 1848

Went into the City after breakfast, paid £75 half of the passage money as bond for "Walmer Castle:" spoke also about the cabins for George and his mother and Charlotte, requesting to have the refusal of them. George went to Mr Rennals to get his advice about going out to Australia, and he advises the step. Called on Murdock (Murdoch?) in answer to his note, requesting permission to make use of any letter to my uncle, as far as showing and extract of it to Lord Grey. Went afterwards by the Blackwall Railway to the East India Docks and went on board the "Walmer Castle: to look at her cabins. Miss Georgina Marsh and Madame Gabiou called whilst we were all out.

Monday 31st July 1848

Grace and I called on Mr and Mrs Hibbert to wish them good bye. Aunt Charlotte, Charlotte had been there just before we had, we stayed half an hour, and then called in Miss Murdock (Murdoch?) in Devonshire St, but she is at Winchester staying with her married sister: from thence walked down Portland Place into Oxford St to Wells St to look at a Piano for sale; then we went to Soho Square to Browes, where we saw some very good second hand Broadwoods. And then we walked as far as the Circus and took a cab home. After dinner George and I went down Regents St as I wished to call at Nicoles the Tailors, found the evening very chilly, and a little rain.

Had an invitation to dinner from my relation Miss Morrison, 18 Cadogan Place, Belgrave Square. 

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Wednesday 9th August 1848

Showery. After breakfast Mrs Dobson called. I walked home with her to her lodgings, 27 Duke St. Went down into the City to Silvers, and to Greens. They seem to forget that I was to have ½ a cabin for a servant.

Grace and I dined at Mr Russell's, 18 Lowndes Street, the only ones there Arthur Hodgson and wife. A Mr Law, Secretary to Lord John Russell, and a Mr Young; we had a very nice dinner, very good wines. Music and singing. Left at ½ past 11 o'clock.

Mrs Chetwode dined next door with Aunt Charlotte. 

Thursday 10th August 1848

A fine day till  the evening when it poured with rain, thundered and lightning. 

Arthur Hodgson and wife, and Mrs Chelwode lunched with us. Afterwards the latter, with Aunt C, Charlotte and little Harriet Chetwode went on to the Coliseum.

Charlotte, George and I however diverged, going down Maylebone St to Boyd's, the Upholsterers and then up Cleveland St where we bought a cheap Piano for 10

Dined at Dr Wilson's with Arthur Hodgson, besides ourselves a Mr Talbot, cousin of Somerset (who married Miss O'Connell) a Mr Sandville, nice secretary to Lord Whitworth, and Dr Paris, and Mr Browning.

At ½ past 10  John Russell came in a cab for Hodgson and myself, he having got tickets for the Covent Garden Opera. We arrived just at the end of the 2nd Act. The Opera was "Gli Ugonotti," (The Huguenots by Giacomo Meyerbeer, 1791-1864) one of the finest pieces of music I ever heard. I was enchanted: the Dramatis Personae were

Margarita Valia- Madame Casteham

Ilconte Di Vens Poim - Tandanini

Valentina - Viacohh.

Paul Di Nanpis - Signore Meris

Marcelo - Marini

Nolante Di Neves- Tagliafiaco

Urbano - Alboni

The Ballet was very indifferent. Mrs Hodgson was at the Opera seats in the Pit Stalls with Mrs Dowling, and when the opera was over and the Ballet was being commenced , we managed to get to her by passing the Doorkeeper 2/6.

The opera was not over till near 1 o'clock. 

Sunday 13 August 1848 - (written in pencil, very light)

A cloudy day, and cold. After Church went with Grace in a cab to call on Miss Morrison, 186 Cadogan Place. She is better but not yet able to see anyone. From there --- Gloucester - cab to St.Johns Wood and called on - who we found in as also - Manning.

In the evening it poured with rain and -- -- called and stayed - - where Miss Callander was unmarried. She is going to send a parcel for - and her niece in Sydney.

Tuesday 15th August 1848 (very light, almost indecipherable) 

Raining all the --- than yesterday: at 11 the Artillery Ban - came to play.  - an hour but they - and her cousin Captain - London: and afterwards Grace  -- and myself were  -- to hear the Artillery Band play - very long however due - When we reached  -- and Miss Marsh took a -- I went out - with Sir Thomas to meet them. Admired Lord Cadogan's yacht which is going - was expected to arrive - a haunch of venison - vessel. Captain - could not be persuaded in - had an engagement to  -- London, so  they went off by the 6 o'clock steamer, Susan by - us four as the wharf--.

Captain and Mrs Tylden came in the evening, and drank tea.

So chilly and damp that fires were lighted in both rooms. 

Friday 18th August 1848

Threatening for rain the whole day. Went to the Emigration Office about Askell, to whom I sent 2 by Post Office order; Met Talbot whom I met at dinner at Dr Wilsons, he gave me his card to give to Matthew Marsh: Called in Gardiner, not came home yet. Called on the OVie Manning who said if I gave him 100, the Bill of 700 should be forthwith accepted: he has asked Grace and myself to dine with him on Monday or Wednesday next.

Went by railway to Blackwall and on board the "Walmer Castle"; they had not painted our cabins, nor will they till Tuesday --.

I went by steamer from Hungerford and London Bridge. 

Saturday 19th August 1848

A cloudy day but a rain after 2 o'clock it poured in the morning. Dr Wilson called. Broadwood sent for the Piano to pack it up. Heard from my Aunt Denman inclosing me a letter from FitzRoy to his mother in Australia.

(rest in pencil) Grace and I went down in a cab to see the House of Lords. Mr Edye Manning wrote came too in order to advise me - order , but on --  (indecipherable pencil)

Thursday 24th August 1848

Called on Sir George Shee, unfortunately not at home.

Edward Wise called on us after breakfast, on his way from the Railway Station, having just come up from the P---al assizes. I accompanied him as far as Bond Street, which I walked down for the purpose of paying a Tailors Bill, on calling at Kents in Piccadilly. Met Dr Wilson and told him I had ordered a saddle for his son(?) and recommended him to send out a bridge also.

Mr Wise dined with us. Edward Wise could not.

Today I went to the Paddington Station to inquire after a parcel of Boots found ---ly us, found that they had just been dispatched.

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Saturday 26th August 1848

Loading the cart with Aunt Charlotte's and our books. It took us till 2 o'clock and we were afraid of its not reaching before the Dock Gates were closed. After it was off, went in a cab with Grace and Aunt to the Blackwall Railway and by it to the Docks, took them on board the Walmer Castle, and left them in the Cabin whilst I got the things into the Cabin and paid the Dock dues. 15/-: after remaining till 6 o'clock we started, and went to see the Chinese Junk which laying near the "Walmer Castle," it is well worth seeing, and much stronger (stranger?) than I expected. Their anchors are made of wood, barbed with iron.

Returned home as we came and had a late dinner

Susan Downman and Miss Georgina Marsh called on us just before we started. The former is to be married to the latter's cousin (Captain Graham) in October and then they leave for India. He is in the Engineers.

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Sunday 3rd September 1848

Another lovely day. Did not got to Church in the morning, had prayers at home. In the evening however I went with Louisa Wise and Miss Rich to Mr Hewitts Church (formerly Mr Sidthorpe's) a Mr Berner preached an xtempore(?) sermon. Captain Dobson called on me whilst I was out, and I did the same whilst he was away: took a walk on the Pier in the afternoon and met Mr Good, left him on his way to Trinity Church where the Bishop of Oxford was to preach.

Wrote a letter to Mrs Wavell. Miss Rich and I, found out we were indirectly connected, her great Aunt "Miss Newcombe" was Aunt to Miss Gostling, who are cousins of my father.

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Tuesday 5th September 1848

Got up very early, breakfasted at the Wise's at ½ past 7 o'clock. Found Miss Mainwaring there having come to wish us good bye. With sorrowful heart Grace and I said adieu to poor Aunt Mary Anne who is perfectly broken hearted at parting with us all. Little did I think that I should have the same disagreeable ordeal to go through eight years ago, when I left England before!!

The Miss Wises accompanied Grace and myself down to the Pier and there we met Captain and Mrs Dobson who had come down on purpose to see us off. We went exactly at 9 o'clock by the Steamer touching at Cowes, it happened to be the day of the Races and the former place of the boat was crowded and amongst some of the people I saw Lady Astell and her daughter, two Miss Whitmores and a Mr Eastman who is Naval Instructor on board the "Excellent" and has a brother in New South Wales at Demplar's Station.

After reaching Southampton took a boat and rowed to the Docks where the Lady De Saumarez was at anchor. After getting my boxes on board, took Grace to the nearest Hotel, and had lunch. We then returned to the steamer and started at ½ past 2, the rain commenced and every appearance of a stormy night we had in prospect. There was a Reverend Mr Marsh, Chaplain of the Scilly Isles bound thither with his wife and family. A Spaniard just from Madrid, and two or three others. Grace was very poorly, not sea sick but out of spirits. I slept much better than I though I should.

We had a good view of the Needles, Alum Bay, Calshot Castle and the whole of the Eastern Coast of the Isle of Wight.

Mr and Mrs North had been staying at Blackheath, met Mrs Tingam-there, who was preparing to return to the City. 

Diary of John A.M. Marsh in England from Australia

Wednesday 20th September 1848

Ship rolling very much in consequence of the heavy swell. Had a desperate headache the whole day. Grace felt uncomfortable. Reading "Emilia Wyndham" by Mrs Arthur Marsh, very interesting. The Dinner today was wretched, the wine worse than usual. Spoke to the Steward about it, also inquired of them was any Porter on board, none whatever he says. Forbes and myself intend to speak to the Captain.

Thermometer 75°

The Awning is fortunately nearly made, they might have certainly taken the trouble I think to have had one ready before leaving the Docks. Up to the present Grace has been prevented going on the Poop, to the dinner, for fear of being seached(?).

A great number of the female emigrants sick below.

We had a great stint of water allowed us. Grace has only 1 quart, and I only a pint and a half. 

File PB130027

Envelop of letter to Mrs R.H. Crofton,

Marshall Place

Perth

N.B. [post mark SP 4, 48Leeds]